Membership Community - Frequently Asked Questions

What if I'm not married anymore, Can I still join?

Yes! This is about pursuing your own healing, in community, regardless of current relationship status! However, this group is designed for women who were in a marriage relationship when the infidelity occurred.

I've already started my healing journey, Will this still help me?

Yes! No matter how long you've been on your journey, if you desire to walk alongside others as we face the betrayal trauma together then the community is a great place for you.

I just discovered an affair, Can I join the community?

Yes! If you are ready to start the healing process and you desire to walk alongside others as we face the betrayal trauma together, then the community is a great place for you.

What does being a part of the community look like?

Right now the community includes:

Weekly online meetings that provide an opportunity to share your story, how your journey is going that week, and get support to keep you moving forward
Weekly book groups that read and discuss one book per quarter on the topic of healing from sexual betrayal
A monthly call with an expert in the field, or a woman who has walked the journey, to learn and ask questions
An online community message board/app, open 24/7. Great for those who can't make the group meeting, or those who prefer writing over talking.

You can participate in as much, or as little as you feel up to each week.

The community is just getting started so you get to help shape what the community looks like in the future. And as a Founding Member, you also get a monthly 1:1 mentoring call with Kate for personalized encouragement, support and accountability.

My husband had an emotional affair, is this group still for me?

Absolutely. Whether your husband had an emotional affair, physical affair, an addiction to pornography, or paid prostitutes; if he betrayed your marriage vows then the community is for you.

Does the Community replace counseling?

No. The community is designed to provide a sisterhood of support for your healing journey, and additional resources as you navigate your trauma. It is not intended to replace counseling, but rather to ensure you are not alone on the journey.

Is this faith based?

Many of the books and courses are not specifically faith based. But there are references to Christianity / God in the community, and some of the books and courses, because God is definitely a part of my story. All members are invited to share authentically about their own healing journey.

How long is my commitment to the community?

The length of time you need the support of the community is totally up to you. This is an investment in your healing and it's available as long or short as you need support.

With a monthly membership you can cancel anytime and you will lose access to the community at the end of that month.

Quarterly memberships renew every three months, they are nonrefundable, but you can stop participating at any time.

What time are your meetings?

Right now our Weekly Group Meeting is on Mondays from 12:30-1:30 CST and our Weekly Book Group is on Wednesday evenings from 7-8pm CST.

Monthly Expert Q & As vary from month to month.

Talking about the betrayal retraumatizes me, should I still join?

That's totally up to you. Our weekly meetings provide an opportunity to share your past, but it's also a place to talk about what you're doing to move beyond the pain in the present and future.

The book group focuses more on information and tools to understand our pain and how to move beyond it.

It's always up to you how much or how little you participate. You are never forced to talk, but I do believe talking with others is part of the healing process. Only you know if this will work for you, but I'd love to have you join us!